How does the me.you referral system work?

Share your unique referral link with people you trust. When they sign up through it and verify their email, they are tracked as your referral. The programme rewards members who help grow the community.

Share your unique referral link with people you trust. When they sign up through it and verify their email, they are tracked as your referral. The programme rewards members who help grow the community.

Why me.you has a referral programme

me.you grows through people sharing it with people they trust, not through paid advertising. This is deliberate — the kind of member who joins because a friend recommended it tends to be more genuine, more engaged, and a better fit for the community than someone who clicked a banner ad.

The referral programme is how this organic growth is encouraged and tracked. It also creates a social contract: if you invite someone, you are implicitly vouching for them as someone worth being on the platform. This dynamic helps maintain community quality.

How to get and share your referral link

  1. 1 Log in to your me.you account.
  2. 2 Go to your Dashboard.
  3. 3 Click "Referrals" in the sidebar or navigation.
  4. 4 Copy your unique referral link.
  5. 5 Share it with friends via message, email, or however feels natural.
  6. 6 When someone signs up using your link and verifies their email, they appear in your referral list.

What counts as a successful referral?

A referral is counted when someone uses your unique link to create an account and then completes email verification. Simply visiting the site through your link is not enough — they need to go through the full signup and verification process.

Referrals are tracked by the link parameter, so the person you invite needs to use your specific link rather than signing up directly. If they lose the link, you can share it again before they complete signup.

Who should you invite?

The referral programme works best when you invite people you genuinely think would be a good fit for the platform — people who are looking for real connection, who are ready to engage honestly, and who you would be comfortable being part of the same community as.

The programme is not designed for mass sharing to strangers or for social media blasting. Sending your link to a small number of people you actually know and think would enjoy the platform is more valuable than sharing it with hundreds of people who are unlikely to join or engage meaningfully.


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